In 1969 Brent Elder left the Wairarapa for Canterbury to further his rugby and farming careers and ended up joining the Linwood RFC…but not before attending a Sunday morning pre-season training run at New Brighton beach with the Christchurch Club. Somehow Brent left behind his ‘rugby towel’; a towel that he’d been given to mark his first International match, against the Springboks for Wairarapa-Bush in 1965.Roger Mahan, a barn-storming loose forward for Christchurch at the time, picked up Brent’s towel and took it home. On the 14 June that season, Christchurch beat Linwood 18-3 at Rugby Park and Roger gave Brent his towel back, to wipe away the tears. With a marker pen Roger had written on the towel and named it 'The Crying Towel'.